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This has been going on for 4 months. I've just now came to the realization I need to get help for my problem so I dont ruin a relationship that was solid and happy. Don't worry You're not crazy!!

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I just wait for the day she decides to go back to him and it is killing me. It's so reassuring to read this, now I know I'm not the only one! It's only since I've been in my most recent relationship that I'm in now that I've become jealous. I sexy housewives nude it's due to a past relationship where the bastard screwed me over really bad.

I feel comforted to know there are others out there who suffer from jealousy. My jealousy has got worse since An ex partner screwed me over with money and going off with my daughters friends mum. I have a nice partner but he works cojtrol a bus driver and he takes young women, hen nights. I do trust him but I do get upset that he has attractive women who wear next to nothing on the bus while I stay at home.

Makes me feel uncomfortable. Thanks for replying. I know that feeling, you're just afraid of losing. You may need some reassurance that he will not do anything "funny".

Most i sort of want a jealous older women seeking control freak he won't if he really loves you. Don't worry, everything should be fine for you. Reading how many other people are like me has actually helped. Next time I see someone I i sort of want a jealous older women seeking control freak my partner may like I will tell myself that maybe that girl is suffering too and hope it helps me. I've lived with this all my life.

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I did go to counselling but didn't help me. Tried meds but they didn't help. I've even got one the stage that anyone attractive on the tele makes me uneasy how mad is. If they could come out with a pill that takes all these feelings away I'd be first in the queue. So who ever suffers like me, I feel for you. It's an evil thing jealousy and it controls lives. Ruins lives and is the one thing I hate about myself and the biggest thing. Good luck all of you women and men sufferers and if you find any ways to manage it please share them with me.

Thanks xx. I've struggled with jealousy, too, and I always appreciate it when people treat the emotion as a normal one, rather than as some kind of sign that you're a freak or crazy for experiencing jealousy.

For me, jealousy is rooted in a deep sense I have always had that anybody I'm with would go off with someone else in a second, given a chance. In other words, that I'm not desirable enough to hold a candle to any other woman. But in my jealous moments where I've been able to sit with it and explore the feelings, I've noticed a deep terror that I will disappear in my partner's estimation as sexy babes from Swift Current wa naked as he finds someone better, that I will literally blink out of his mind and, thus, no longer exist.

It i sort of want a jealous older women seeking control freak as terrifying as death, to me, which is why it's SO hard to sit. I wrote about that here:. I'm working on understanding that the fear of disappearing is not a rational fear, and I'm getting better, but I i sort of want a jealous older women seeking control freak it's an interesting existential question. Thanks for the article! This is a great article.

I could not figure out which book that you wrote that would be good for this subject. I was an extremely jealous person, which stemmed from child abuse. I did not know this until I was twenty-five.

A boyfriend of mine talked me into getting help because I could not stay with men longer than a year, without leaving. I was so jealous that I was always positive that if they weren't cheating, they were going to. They were really nice guys. I felt ridiculous, but I couldn't help it. My doctor had me read Courage To Heal, which was for the abuse and the jealousy combined. It housewives seeking hot sex PA Walnutport 18088 me two years of counseling to feel normal, if there is such a thing.

I am thirty-five and ten years later I am still with the guy that talked me into going to counseling. I was against going to a therapists, I thought they were a joke.

I was wrong. You just have to find one that you relate to. I would be lying if I said that I am never jealous, however, I know how to handle myself, and that is freedom. So keep reading books and after you read those books find more and know there is hope. I realize this comment is years late I have read it and I love it. So in the past two weeks he has be i sort of want a jealous older women seeking control freak me and I'm getting sick of it.

I know exactly how the argument will go. You treat me badly! I can't help but see how nice you are with other people who have a rep they shouldn't be trusted!

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He never admits he's having an emotional affair, he never understands that coupled with his drinking hurts me. I'm unreasonable and trying to change who he is. Can I save us? i sort of want a jealous older women seeking control freak

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That in and of itself is unacceptable. Is the child also his? If not, did he join your family knowing that it included a child with exceptional needs? Any man who comes home and drinks and then takes a swing at his wife is an ass regardless of whether there is a child with extra needs. And if he is being a great guy at work to other women he is sending a message that he wants a life that doesn't include the stress of a disabled child. The fact is that there is such a child in his life so he needs to man up and do the right thing.

I have learned that there is only one way to find out whether a i sort of want a jealous older women seeking control freak will get his shit together and that is to lay it out and ask. It is what it is. I would wanh him to fish or cut bait. And if he agrees to fish, then I would ask him what he plans to do to make that a reality.

If he gets defensive and tries to put it back on you, redirect it back to. I am asking what your plan is. Unfortunately some people, men in particular, are unable to cope with a disabled or chronically ill child.

It takes major maturity to do. You may be dealing with a man who is not grown up enough or loving enough to be a good person.

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I am someone whom doesn't have a lot of female friends or male companionship. All because of jealousy. Those whom are like queen bees. Always competitive, likes to demean women like me and being mean hearted and wanting "all ts shemale water".

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It's sad womne the queen bee's start so much drama in female natures. People get sick of being around that is why I've keep to myself and worry about myself and my own problems. Because when you try to help another person emotionally they tend to hurt you emotionally.

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Who's he with? What's he doing that's so important that he can't even respond with some kind of answer?

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But every time it happens it gets ugly and then we make up and continue where we. Just confused.

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Reassure her that you are looking out for her best interests because you believe in her and that your wish is for her to believe in. You are best to reassure her that you are there for her when she is ready. Insecure women are difficult to deal.

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I still love her, she has amazing qualities but continuous aquasations of me looking at other woman or questioning me of cheating on her made me paranoid, it was painful, beyond belief.

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